Dad has a brilliant way to handle his son's temper after school fight — and it's parenting masterclass

Gentle parenting is growing increasingly popular amongst modern families. This method of parenting emphasizes the values of connection, empathy, and the avoidance of harsh discipline and punishment. Aaron and Jissell knew that a kinder and aware approach towards their kid, who had been involved in a fight at school, would rewire him to act differently. On their joint family TikTok (@jissel_fitts), the Fitts share heartwarming instances from their daily life as parents. In one post, Jissell captured a delicate moment between her husband and son, giving a glimpse into the father’s emotional intelligence and compassion. 

The viral snippet with nearly a million views showcases the father, Aaron, gently holding his son’s head and firmly speaking about his behavior at school. “You have to learn how to control your emotions. Just because you’re upset doesn’t mean you get to hit. Do you understand?” the father affirmed. The teary-eyed son nodded his head, comprehending his father’s words. Continuing to speak in his steady yet kind voice, Aaron said, “You can’t hit people because you’re angry. That’s a part of growing up, man.” He urged the son to reflect on his actions and be more conscious of his emotions. “You hear me? Daddy was just trying to tell you.” 

The boy touched his father’s beard as he spoke, which hints at the safe environment he is being raised. Meanwhile, the mother secretly filmed the beautiful moment and penned a note expressing gratitude for her husband’s parenting. “This is what every little boy needs, a father to teach them about their emotions,” Jissell noted, adding that she wanted to “step in” but also was left in awe of her husband. “I have to constantly remind myself my husband is raising a boy and prepping him to become a man one day,” she wrote. The viral post was liked by 133,000 viewers, and the sensitive moment was acknowledged by many others in the comments. 

One person (@xoxo_jessiccaaS) wrote, “This is so needed! Instead of yelling and demeaning words.” While another (@shellyed77) admitted, “My husband cries as much as I do. I love men who are in touch with their feelings.” @thick.ginger noted, “I love the fathers of this generation. Instead of telling him to man up, he explains and lets his little boy have his moment of tears." Whereas @jreycash had a different stance. “The mother saying she’s not stepping in is the best part! Let the men raise their boys!” the comment stated. “That’s breaking generational cycles, this is so amazing. Great job, Dad!” penned @risingphoenix.11. His little fingers gently rubbing his dada’s beard shows how much he trusts and loves him,” highlighted @homeafterdawn. 

According to Cleveland Clinic Health Essentials, gentle parenting creates a safe environment for both parents and children to connect and fosters mutual respect and understanding. This parenting technique encourages kids to be more aware and cognizant of their emotions without having to experience harsh treatments from adults in the form of punishment.

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