Girlfriend uses advice from ChatGPT to win arguments – boyfriend feels he doesn’t stand a chance
In this wild age of artificial intelligence, almost anything feels possible. Tools that once belonged in science fiction, like chatbots that know your secrets or virtual companions who offer emotional support, are now just a screen tap away. The possibilities are insane. AI is transforming how we manage our relationships, our emotions, and even the advice we seek over morning coffee.
In a similar instance, a curious encounter was recently shared by a Vice contributor. While enjoying a quiet weekend coffee, they stumbled across a dating advice submission with a unique twist. A reader confided that his girlfriend had taken to using ChatGPT as her relationship therapist. She would ask the AI for guidance on their private disputes, and then, much to the boyfriend’s bemusement, she’d later reference those AI-sourced insights during their real-life arguments.
His reaction after reading was that she nearly choked on their latte at the realization. "AI therapists" and “AI girlfriends” are sometimes dismissed as odd or fringe; these tools are quickly weaving themselves into the fabric of daily life. What was shocking to the writer became a fascinating snapshot of how, for some, chatting with an AI has become as normal as talking things over with a friend or journaling after a tough day.
This story is hardly an outlier. Third-party observers are increasingly noting similar trends.ChatGPT and similar AIs are, for some individuals, sliding into the roles once reserved for confidants, mentors, or even neutral third parties in our emotional worlds. The reasons are both practical and personal, as therapy remains expensive and sometimes hard to access; friends and family come with their own baggage and biases. At the same time, a revealing trend is taking shape: men are far more likely than women to use ChatGPT. About 85% of its user base is male, as per Tech Crunch. This gender gap becomes even more striking when it comes to relationship advice; men are nearly three times as likely as women to consult ChatGPT for help navigating their love lives.
The Vice contributor suggests what any good therapist might: If you’re ever feeling outnumbered in an argument where AI input starts dominating, it’s time to address that dynamic openly with your partner. She adds, "Your relationship should be a two-way street, with both parties feeling heard, validated, and valued." For many, AI-driven tools like ChatGPT are filling the gap, offering anonymous and nonjudgmental advice where seeking face-to-face help might feel uncomfortable or stigmatizing. In short, as men continue to bypass traditional routes like therapy, their reliance on AI for advice, especially in matters of the heart, is emerging as a new digital norm.