In this one life, there are so many different kinds of people we meet. Each of them has different characteristics and habits that we like or just loathe. Mostly, we loathe people.
Life is a journey, that offers zillions of opportunities, but you have to deal with a large of people.
We meet different kinds of people with whom we easily connect or we pretend to connect or we just prefer running away before any kinds of forced interaction occur.
From people at our home to people we meet at the grocery store, from people at the gym to people we meet at the movie theatre, from people we meet while shopping, to people we meet at the airport - the kind of annoyance we feel after an unfortunate interaction makes us go nuts and boils our blood.
There are some people in this world who are just unapologetically annoying that makes us feel apologetic for their existence. And yes, they do have the power to make our lives miserable because some of them are just to hard to ignore. Here are different kinds of annoying people we meet in life who have intentionally or unintentionally, made us believe that slapping, or pushing people into the gutter is not a bad option.
Being positive is overrated for the kind of people who always prefer looking at the dull and negative side of every damn thing in the world. We all know about the negative and positive aspects of life. Also, we are pretty aware of the fact that life does offer ups and downs. But, the negative devils make sure to accentuate the dark side of every situation leaving us apprehensive about things.
No matter how hard and challenging our lives become, we tend to look at the positive and bright side of it, in order to go on in life.
However, such pessimistic attitude in people affects us from having an optimistic perspective in life which indeed is plain annoying. Unfortunately, we are bestowed with such people in the form of best friends, siblings and yes, parents. The relationship that we have with them makes us helpless most of the time and we just cannot ignore them. How annoying could that be? To avoid negative people one can talk to people whom they find positive and enjoy their positive vibes. Any day, being positive feels stronger than being negative.
Emotions are something that makes us, builts us and completes us. There are no human beings, who have no emotions inside their heart. It can be in any form- love, anger, hatred, joy, jealousy and so on and so forth. It is natural and makes us humans. However, this world also has people with peculiarly extra of everything. Extra love, extra anger, extra hatred and so on and so forth.
Anything of excess is annoying and irritating as hell. We have a propensity for accepting love, care, and concern. However, we meet some people in life who suffocates us by taking everything to their heart and feeling hurt deeply making our lives hard. We have such kind of people in our lives very close to us, like our friends, mother, girlfriends, boyfriends and that man from the grocery store whose parking we took because we literally did not have any other choice. To handle such emotional people, we can be open about how much love and care we are comfortable with. We might end up hurting them, but it will be for our own good.
We have our own stuff to take care of and to deal with. One of the most annoying kinds of people is who just cannot live without intervening in other's life in every possible way. It feels like our life is their life and their life is something that is inconsequential for us. However, our lives become a part of every conversation they have. Things like, career decision, our life plans, marriage plans and so on and so forth- people who love to interfere have a 'solution' for every issue we have.
That annoying aunt of ours who just cannot stop talking about the way we look and dress-up, or that annoying neighbor who cannot keep their eyes off from things happening at our house, or that one person who never stops asking about our sex life and detailed information of our intimate times with our partners. One can pass on such people by, making up fake stories and altering everything. It is fun actually.
We all have that one friend, sister or boyfriend/girlfriend who cannot keep their hands off our phone and laptops. They just cannot leave our sh*t alone, because they believe that sharing a relationship in any form condones them from barging into our privacy.
People who enjoy knowing what is happening in our lives by constantly keeping a check on our phones, laptop history, and even wardrobes are the ones who are hard to stand. They literally throw up things that they have read in front of wrong people at a wrong time making our lives even more miserable. The best way to deal this kind of people is by looking straight into their eyes and asking them to not touch the phone and yes, locking the phone and laptop with the craziest passwords and toe print.
Greedy people are omnipresent. Every nook and corner have them and they love making other's life miserable because that is their job. We meet such people at the grocery store, at a drugs shop, in the park, in office and sometimes at home. Sharing about our success and opportunity in the field of career or offering food to greedy people will always leave us with nothing but regret because they will not miss any chance to grab what is ours.
These kinds of people do not mind taking the advantage of things and enjoying the luxury for free. But, what they do mind, is being considerate of people who make things available for them. Such people will grab every last bite of the meal and will not pass if a pizza is offered, however, they will not share a bite from their pizza and will make us feel that we are invisible in that particular moment. To deal with such dangerous wolves, the best way is to become the tiger of our own lives by creating a dangerous and furious image of ourselves.
How much do we hate people who whine? Or, people who just cannot stop complaining about how miserable their lives are? Words cannot describe the fervor of having a whining person in our lives. It is an agitating experience because one cannot ask them to shut up nor can they beat them up. We cannot do so because they are "sad" and "unhappy".
People who whines think, that their problems and tragedies are bigger than anyone in this world, which is even more annoying. The best way to avoid that situation would be, act more miserable and tragic to make them feel guilty about things they are whining about.
Hypocrisy is something that is inevitable. We are all hypocrites in some or the other way. However, there are some people who criticise us for something and do not mind doing it themselves.
Hypocrites judge people for the things they consider aren't right, and later, we find them doing the same things because apparently, they find it a cool thing to do. As complex as it sounds, hypocrites are the most complex kind of people that we have to tolerate in this life. To deal with hypocrite people, it is better that we accept that no matter what, some people have hypocrisy innate in them and nothing can be changed about it.
We all have met that person who goes to any extent just to drive all the attention on him/her. Yes, no matter wherever we are, there are some people who cannot breathe without having anyone noticing or praising their presence.
Trivial things or incidences like breaking a nail- can be a big reason for attention seekers to make all of us feel doomed for not feeling sad about it. They have the power to make us feel guilty for enjoying our lives without asking them if they took a bath in the morning. To deal with such attention seekers, the best way is to never give them attention at first place. It will make them feel useless for waiting for the attention and the pampering, so they will look for someone else to spoil them.