What qualities in a man attract women the most? 8 character traits of an 'ideal man'

What qualities in a man attract women the most? 8 character traits of an 'ideal man'

It is a mystery and exhausting task to figure out how to impress or rather attract a woman, but adopting these qualities would take you a step closer.

There are multiple beliefs set by people regarding what attracts a woman, but these are mere assumptions. Men have set a common belief that they should be unemotional, cool, detached to fit the description of an 'ideal man' and not be perceived as “weak.” Another assumption that is circulated among men is that having a wall of cash is a sure shot way to impress women, instead, it would make even harder to find a person who truly likes them for their character and personality.

CaptionMen have set a common belief that they should have a few attributes to avoid being percieved as weak (Pexels)
CaptionMen have set a common belief that they should have a few attributes to avoid being percieved as weak (Pexels)

Well, buying fancy cars and house are not qualities that work for every woman, rather, they look for an emotional connection. To dwell deeper, understanding the qualities that attract a woman is essential to know, so, here are a few qualities that most women are attracted to.

Having a wall of cash does not let you have a real relationship (Pixabay)
Having a wall of cash does not let you have a real relationship (Pixabay)

1. Bring motivated in life

Having to the drive to attain a goal or pursue a passion is a very attractive quality in a man. It is important to club passion with the drive rather than choosing a field of work to please other people. Being unenthusiastic about your work and cursing your job every time you talk about it is a downer. So, almost always, the drive beats the dollar.

Having to the drive to attain a goal or pursue a passion is a very attractive quality in a man (Pexels)
Having to the drive to attain a goal or pursue a passion is a very attractive quality in a man (Pexels)

Masculine energy is generally perceived to be a directional energy, like an arrow. The unidirectional focus that penetrates through the resistance in order to achieve their goal is a good quality and attractive to women.

Drive beats dollar (Pexels)
Drive beats dollar (Pexels)

2. Being fully present and understanding

In a relationship, it is important to support and understand your partner to sustain the relationship for the long-term. Well, in order to emotionally connect with your woman, listening to her and understanding her needs would mean more than any gift.

It is important to support and understand your partner to sustain the relationship for the long-term (Pexels)
It is important to support and understand your partner to sustain the relationship for the long-term (Pexels)

Having distraction-free conversations and making eye-contact would show that you are interested and make them feel important in your life. This would be more attractive rather than gifts or fancy dates.

Having a distraction free conversation would show that you are interested and make your partner feel heard (Pexels)
Having a distraction free conversation would show that you are interested and make your partner feel heard (Pexels)

3. Giving her your attention

There are many couples who might discuss their day or have a conversation with scattered attention. Well, in the long-run, this might prove to be a quality that would make you unattractive.

Shut off all distractions to make her feel heard and understood (Pexels)
Shut off all distractions to make her feel heard and understood (Pexels)

Giving her your full attention is important since it helps in establishing the understanding and shows that you are supportive to an extent. Despite your exemplar multi-tasking skills it is important to shut off everything and focus on what your partner has to say. This beam of attention would draw her towards you.

Giving her your full attention is important since it helps in establishing the understanding (Pexels)
Giving her your full attention is important since it helps in establishing the understanding (Pexels)

4. A good sense of humor

A man with a good sense of humor can be the best non-physical attribute that attracts a woman (Pexels)
A man with a good sense of humor can be the best non-physical attribute that attracts a woman (Pexels)

Being in a relationship with a partner who is always dead serious has almost no sign of fun. A man with a good sense of humor can be the best non-physical attribute that attracts a woman. Their lives might be serious, piling onto the seriousness would not better the situation or improve your chances with your partner.

5. Being spontaneous rather than predictable

Being too predictable can cause the death of attraction. Leading a monotonous life can sap the excitement out of the relationship and make it dull and boring. In addition, this would make you unattractive and drive your potential or current partner away.

Leading a monotonous life can sap the excitement out of the relationship and make it dull and boring (Pexels)
Leading a monotonous life can sap the excitement out of the relationship and make it dull and boring (Pexels)

Making tiny efforts to inject spontaneity like organizing a unique date, surprising her with her favorite beverage or just getting her flowers would add the attractive mystery element in the relationship. Being spontaneous would bring passion into the relationship and to your interactions with your partner.

Being spontaneous would bring passion into the relationship and to your interactions with your partner (Pexels)
Being spontaneous would bring passion into the relationship and to your interactions with your partner (Pexels)

6. Having a purpose in life

This might sound like what a shrink advises you, but this can also attract a woman. It is easy to stay broke, out of shape and have a dysfunctional relationship. But putting in the efforts to be in shape, work hard and have a healthy relationship are steps towards a set goal.

But putting in the efforts to be in shape, work hard and have a healthy relationship are steps towards a set goal (Pexels)
But putting in the efforts to be in shape, work hard and have a healthy relationship are steps towards a set goal (Pexels)

This is a quality that attracts women and shows if you have commitment issues or not. Nothing is more attractive than a man who is chasing a target and faces all the odds. This attribute also reflects a lot about your personality that would help your partner assess compatibility.

Nothing is more attractive than a man who is chasing a target and faces all the odds (Pixabay)
Nothing is more attractive than a man who is chasing a target and faces all the odds (Pixabay)

7. Being an alpha male when needed

Women are often attracted to men who are courageous enough to hold their hand and lead them (Pexels)
Women are often attracted to men who are courageous enough to hold their hand and lead them (Pexels)

Women are often attracted to men who are courageous enough to hold their hand and lead them. This does not mean that you turn into a power-hungry hound, but you need to be patient, loving and an inspirational man. There is a fine line between being a dictator and a leader. Well, you need to adopt the qualities of a leader rather than throwing your weight around and dominating people around you. Being able to lead and having strength never equates to only the physical prowess, but the emotional power or rather, intelligence too.

8. Being emotionally vulnerable

Being emotionally vulnerable also shows that you are serious about the relationship and help sustain the relationship (Pexels)
Being emotionally vulnerable also shows that you are serious about the relationship and help sustain the relationship (Pexels)

Having all the other qualities and being emotionally reserved might lead her to feel that she is dating a robot, or a person who is not completely interested in you. This would always hinder your ability to have a fulfilling relationship since the emotional quotient is missing from the relationship. Let your woman in to build the emotional intimacy. Being emotionally vulnerable also shows that you are serious about the relationship and would be a factor in sustaining the relationship.

It is not essential to impose all of these qualities at once, but taking your time and working through your shortcomings would allow you to reap maximum benefit. These are not all the qualities, but the list of a few that might help up your dating game.

It is a mystery and exhausting task to figure out how to impress or rather attract a woman, but adopting these qualities would take you a step closer. In addition, you need to analyze the stance of your relationship before implementing these qualities and working towards goals as a couple.

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