What does the way you cuddle reveal about your relationship

What does the way you cuddle reveal about your relationship

Even though women love to cuddle, it's something that a lot of men don't do. Do you know what kind of cuddler your man is? Read on to find out what's going on in his mind. 

Cuddling after sex is something that many women love. But for men, it's a different ball game. You can tell a lot about a man by the way he cuddles after being intimate. Do you know what kind of cuddler your man is? Read on to find out what's going on in his mind. 

1. Cuddles you immediately after being intimate

He feels like he belongs with you (Pixabay)
He feels like he belongs with you (Pixabay)

This shows that he's happy with the relationship and can't help but feel like he belongs right next to you. He's showing you his trust in you by staying in physical contact with you after sex. This shows that he is completely relaxed and enjoys your company. 

2. Nuzzles your neck

Your scent drives him wild (Pixabay)
Your scent drives him wild (Pixabay)

When a guy nuzzles your neck, he's basically telling you that your scent drives him wild. He's a man who loves to focus on you, especially in bed. Your man knows how to make you happy. Because the happier you are, the more attracted to you he is. His only focus is you. 

3. Hugs you like a pillow

He's really protective of you (Pixabay)
He's really protective of you (Pixabay)

Is your man a full-on body hugger? Does he use you like a human cuddle pillow right after sex? This means he's really protective of you. His actions indicate a loving, caring nature. Full-body cuddling can also mean that he trusts you completely. 

4. Lets you cuddle him 

He is considerate of your feelings (Pixabay)
He is considerate of your feelings (Pixabay)

Post-sex cuddling is something that a lot of women love, so if your partner lets you cuddle him without complaining, he's showing you that he still feels close to you even though he isn't in the same 'cuddling' headspace as you are. This also shows that he is considerate of your feelings. 

5. Falls asleep right after

Your partner is just resting up for round two (Pixabay)
Your partner is just resting up for round two (Pixabay)

The saying goes 'you snooze, you lose', but in this case, your partner is just resting up for round two. Napping after sex is fairly common among men, so if your partner dozes off after you two have had a tumble, then it only means that it drained his energy. The nap is to restore all that spent energy.

6. Runs off to the loo

He's just answering nature's call (Pixabay)
He's just answering nature's call (Pixabay)

This isn't your man running away from you. He really is answering to nature's call! Prolactin and oxytocin are hormones that are released during sex, and this also plays a role in how your body regulates water. So if your man takes off to the loo after sex, it's because it's natural! 

7. Doesn't cuddle you at all

It's natural if he doesn't want to cuddle (Pixabay)
It's natural if he doesn't want to cuddle (Pixabay)

Many men don't cuddle after sex. This doesn't mean that they want to get away from you. This can be chalked down to how his body works. A man's blood pressure rapidly shoots up during sex and then comes crashing down after. This makes them genuinely tired, and sleepy! Don't feel bad about this. It means he's just beat.

8. Suddenly stopped cuddling you

He's trying to pull away from you (Pixabay)
He's trying to pull away from you (Pixabay)

If your man was a cuddler and then he suddenly stopped completely, he's trying to pull away from you. This means that he's hiding something. When your man stops cuddling you despite being a cuddler, it means that he' trying to mask his guilt. 

9. Heads out the door asap

He doesn't want to commit to anything (Pixabay)
He doesn't want to commit to anything (Pixabay)

Your red flags need to go up if your man does this. This means that he doesn't see you as someone who he could have a serious relationship. He's got a lot of other things on his plate. He's completely against commitment. His sudden departure also indicates that he doesn't want to get too attached to you. 

10. Buries his face in his phone

He's easily distracted (Pixabay)
He's easily distracted (Pixabay)

Does your man stick his nose in his phone right after he stuck it in you? This shows that he's easily distracted, lacking in focus. You have to pry him away from the phone if you want to get a decent reply out of him. It also shows that he is superficial and doesn't want to engage with you on a personal level. 

11. Holds your hands

He's trying to form a bond with you (Pixabay)
He's trying to form a bond with you (Pixabay)

Your guy loves to hold your hands after sex, which means that he's trying to form a bond with you. You can feel the love energy coursing through his skin. He's trying to tell you that he wants to get to know you better. Holding your hand means he's showing intimacy and connection.

12. Goes to get a snack

This shows that your man is eager to bond with you (Pixabay)
This shows that your man is eager to bond with you (Pixabay)

Rather than run off to the loo, if your guy takes off towards the kitchen, it isn't because the food is his second love. He's just energizing himself for round two! This shows that your man is eager to bond with you, and wants to be energetic while he's at it. No complaints here, right? 

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